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| Online Dating: Your messages are important! |
| Thursday |
Everyone has their own message style. Some people write long, informative messages while others write short and sweet memos.
Millionaire dating / sugar daddy seeking messages tend to be upfront and sometimes a little hard-hitting. Not desperate to flatter or charm, sugar daddy messages often look more like business merger proposals than online love letters.
What's YOUR message style? Do your messages sit well with you? Or do you find yourself editing them over and over again, never fully satisfied with the end result? If you answered yes to either question, you've experienced message anxiety!
Message anxiety is a major problem for many online dating singles. Some users say that they've lost a chance at finding true love because of their inability to write and send messages in a timely fashion.
If all else fails, write first, think later. At the very least, this approach will give you some material to work with, and maybe even a whole message- just don't forget the subject line!Labels: beginners, cyber dating, dating, dating profile, dating tips, dos and dont's dating guide, email tips, profile, singles dating, tricky, write profile, writing tips |
posted by Online Dating 101 @ 6:24 PM
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| How to Online Date - Tips For Writing A Seductive First Email |
| Tuesday |
Guys... Why don't hot girls ever email you back? This article will teach you some advanced techniques to capture her attention and make a connection with her. You'll be able to craft emails that will leave her *needing* to know more about who you are.
Analyze the bad emails she gets 50 times a day and see why they don't work.
Hot women online dating get a ton of emails from guys every day. Let's start by looking at the average email a guy sends a girl on an online dating website and why it doesn't work. I'm not accusing you of writing one of these, but just in case you *might* have, take a quick look. It goes something like:
"Hi, I saw your profile and you are really cute! I like your hat in that picture, it's really nice, where did you get it? Anyway, come take a look at my profile and if you like what you see, email me!"
This email can be broken down into three parts. Bad. Badder. Baddererest.
Sentence 1: Bad
The last thing a hot girl who gets 50 emails a day wants to read is another average guy saying another average thing. Also, ban "cute" from your vocabulary. Cute is so bland and overused, it barely has any meaning to women anymore. Besides, women want to be beautiful. Not cute. Ask them!
Sentence 2: Worse
"I like your hat" is a good example of the bad online dating advice given out by MSN and Yahoo online dating "experts" (COUGH). They say "find something in her profile or photo and ask her about it." That's great if you want to be her friend, but it doesn't make any kind of connection, so forget it. I'll tell you what to ask about in a minute when I'm done having my fun tearing apart this bad email.
Sentence 3: Worst
Just a well educated guess, but I'd say 80% of bad emails to girls end with "come take a look at my profile and if you like what you see, email me." What's wrong with that? First, everyone does it. Second, you need to end your email with a command, not a suggestion! Salesmen and marketers call it a "call to action", like "BUY NOW!" You don't need to go that heavy, but realistically, anything commanding and interesting is better than a passive "if you like what you see..." You'd be better off ending it with "rabid monkeys are eating my fingers as I type, email me back or they'll finish me off!" Actually, I kind of like that one. Feel free to try it out.
Thus ends our "Anatomy of a Bad Email" lesson...
Step2STEP 2: Basics of a good email
The most important online dating tip I can give you is... BE INTERESTING! Most guys really do write the same boring email over and over. If you really want to blow her away, and grab her attention from the pack, you need to get her attention by being interesting and unique, and then create a connection with her.
The easiest way to get her attention is to have a sense of humor and one of the strongest ways to build a connection with her is by being insightful. You are about to learn both.
Step3Step 3: How to have a sense of humor...
There are lots of ways of showing a sense of humor in an email, but this is a simple technique that anyone can do. First, read her profile up and down, back and forth. Pick out something that is completely unique to this girl, and ignore all the stuff she's written that you've seen already in dozens of other women's dating profiles.
For example, she says, "I'm smart, funny, unique, love baseball, study medicine, and also work on a chicken farm."
Forget everything but the chicken farm. The chicken farm makes her unique! Try to let your brain come up with the craziest, funniest observations you can. You might write something like:
"A chicken farm? I love chickens! We'd be the perfect couple... You could poach extra chickens from work and I could fence them on the chicken black market. Eventually we could build up a nest egg and flee the coup to sunny Chichen Itza!"
Ok, that's a bad set of puns, even for me. But you get the humor in it and she will too. You are touching on what makes her unique, the little point that most guys ignore in order to go for the easy and mundane stuff like "I like your hat." Picking out the unique points alone will get her attention, and having a sense of humor about them will win her over.
Step4Step 4: How to be insightful
Guys don't really read profiles. Sure, we skim them over a couple times and look for points to talk about, but we don't usually read between the lines. We don't really look for the depth of her words, the subtext of what she is really saying... what she is really asking for. What am I talking about? Let's go right to an example.
Here's a section of a woman's profile:
"I've been here before, perhaps too many times, each time a little more jaded. If only we could be more honest with each other, the world would be a better place. I'm looking for a guy who is kind, faithful, and sincere."
Is she saying she is looking for a kind, faithful, sincere guy?
Only on the surface. What she is really telling us is...
"I've been hurt by men."
How did I get that out of the above paragraph? Re-read what she's saying: she's come back time after time, even more jaded, which means she's gone through numerous relationships, each of them having ended badly. She's wishing for more honesty, which means she's faced a lot of deceit. And she's looking for a guy who is kind, faithful and sincere, which heavily suggests that she knows what she wants because she's done time with a lot of guys who have been unkind, unfaithful, and insincere to her.
So, I see this profile and I see a girl who has been hurt, and I know that she will respond to a guy who is kind, faithful and sincere? So is that how I present myself?
*NO!*
I'm going to do even better. There's a guy that she'll respond to way more readily than the above guy... a guy who UNDERSTANDS HER! Forget everything about what women say they want on the surface! Deep down... they want to be understood (we all do really). Being a guy who understands who she really is and sympathizes with her is much more powerful and rare.
To address that, I would write something like:
"I read your profile and couldn't help but feel a twinge of sadness at your words. We all seek happiness in life, but disappointment certainly seems to find its way in often enough. Like you, I simply seek a bright sunny day in a cloudy world."
I don't confront her issues directly of course, a subtle brush is all it takes to get her attention and let her know that the potential is there. This would certainly get her attention away from the guys who write "I'm sincere, honest, and faithful." You know... the same guys that hurt her in the past?
Step5Step 5: Wrap it up
So you've grabbed her attention with humor, then you let her know that you are an intelligent, insightful guy that is really paying attention to her. You've got her attention. Now you just need to wrap it up and drive her towards your profile (if you are simply on a classified site like Craigslist, you will want to add more details about yourself).
There are lots of great ways to wrap up your email to her. A simple and effective one is to create a positive image of the two of you together, and command her reply.
For example:
"Picture this... You and I walking in the park, playing catch or just kicking around with a couple of ice creams on a sunny Saturday... If that's the way you love to spend a lazy weekend, we'll get along famously. My email is at the bottom, you know what to do!"
Now simply wrap those three things together... in your own words of course... and start emailing girls. And wait, one more critical thing... Always include your picture! Having a great photo is a different article, but it's something you absolutely must do.
What... you thought it would be as simple as writing "Hey baby, what's up?" :) Cheers and happy dating!Labels: dating, dating bio, dating guide, dating profile, dating site, dating tips, email tips, first email, free dating, millionaire club, online dating, profile, relationship, romance, singles, wealthy men, writing tips |
| posted by Eileen @ 11:45 PM
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| How to create a safe profile for online dating |
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Online Dating is a very popular way to meet people and to date. There are, however, dangers to online dating. Creating a safe profile is one of the keys to staying safe.
Do not put your contact information in your profile such as your email, phone number or address. If you need to talk to someone online try to use a messaging tool such as MSN, Yahoo, or AOL. Remember, it's safer to email and chat through the dating site. Some scammers are more willing to chat on Yahoo or MSN since there's no monitor for them. You can become a member for free here to check more detailed tips for this.
If you have children do not talk about your children in your profile. Although people may be interested to know if you have kids or not, it is not wise to tell anyone about your kids until you feel comfortable with the person.
When posting a picture of yourself remember that the people looking at that picture will judge you on it. Select the picture you think works well for what you want to get out of online dating. Load pictures that you think may appeal to the kind of people you want to meet.Labels: dating, dating bio, dating guide, dating profile, dating safety, dating site, dating tips, free dating, millionaire club, online dating, profile, relationship, romance, safe dating, safety tip, singles, wealthy men |
| posted by Eileen @ 11:41 PM
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| How to Improve Your Online Dating Profile |
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Write a smart headline: Stay away from overused catch phrases or trite one-liners. Think about what makes you unique. Your headline can be about you or about who you are seeking. Stay away from negative or apathetic headlines, "I'm lonely," "Pick me" or "Blah, blah, blah," for example. Think of something that is important to you to share with a mate and then use a headline based around that (art, music, tennis, travel).
Use Pictures Wisely: For your main photo, use a clear picture that shows your face. You can include other candid shots in your additional photos that show full length, or close-up in a variety of situations.
Use recent photos and update them once every couple of weeks. We are usually our own worst critic so enlist some friends to help pick the most flattering pictures for your profile.
Keep It Positive: Information about bad break-ups, bitterness, and hostility are a sure way to get passed by. It might be a sign that you aren't ready for a new relationship.
Keep your profile focused on you, not on a laundry list of expectations. What do you like to do? What things are important to you in life? Don't mention exes and avoid bragging or focusing only on your career.
Be Honest About Who You Are: If you are funny by nature, write funny. If you aren't, then don't. Try to make your real personality come through in your writing. Don't pretend to have interests just to impress someone. If you love listening to 80's music, say so. On the Internet, you are never alone.
Pretend It's a Cover Letter: Just because it is personal business doesn't mean you can forgo spell check and punctuation. Proofread your profile and ask other people's opinions on it. Your friends will tell you whether or not it sounds like you.
There's a fine line between too much and not enough when it comes to dating profiles. That goes for both information and word counts. Several short paragraphs will do more for you than two sentences. Likewise, no one wants to wade through the first three chapters of your biography online either.
More tips: Become a member here.Labels: dating, dating bio, dating guide, dating profile, dating site, dating tips, free dating, millionaire club, millionaire dating, millionairematch, online dating, profile, relationship, romance, singles, wealthy men |
| posted by Eileen @ 11:29 PM
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| Online dating for beginners |
| Sunday |
We all know that meeting that special someone at the local bar, the gym or through friends can take a lot of time and often a lot of luck. If hanging around bars or clubs in the hope of stumbling into your next lifelong partner does not appeal to you then perhaps you should consider what online dating has to offer. When online dating first took-off in the mid-nineties, it offered something that was entirely new and unique. It empowered people by giving them a way to find and communicate instantly with thousands of other people from other parts of the world and from all walks of life.
It has come a long way since that time. The number of people now using dating services is huge and growing every day. According to a recent report by Comscore, about 30-million Americans and about 37-million Europeans were actively using dating sites as of July 2006. Many of the leading sites claim well over 10-million members. Just put that into perspective for a moment. Ten million is roughly comparable to the number of people living in a major international city such as London or New York. In other words, you can think of each of these dating sites as very large cyber-cities.
Of course, as well as the mega sites, there are also plenty of smaller-scale dating sites, the equivalent to cyber-towns, as well as lots of smaller special interest sites that offer services for people who share something in common. Where you go, and what you do is entirely up to you, and really depends on what you are looking for. But needless to say, there's something for just about everyone. It's generally best to decide what you want before signing-up, so that you choose the service that's right for you. If you're prepared to travel, that gives you more options and means you have more choice about which sites you use. You should also consider the type of relationship you are looking for. Would you prefer an open forum where you contact other people, or would you prefer to be paired up with someone?
So what's on offer? Here's a brief overview.
Popular dating services offer an open forum, where you can browse picture profiles of thousands of other members. Most services offer the ability to search for people by location, by personal characteristics, by interest and hobbies, among many other things. The most popular sites include Match.com, Yahoo Personals, and FriendFinder, but there are many others that are well worth a look. Most sites offer a free trial, but generally you need to become a paying member if you want to contact somebody.
Matchmaking services offer additional features such as profiling and compatibility testing to help you find your ideal partner. Some sites, such as eHarmony will even do the matchmaking for you suggesting which people are most suited to you. For those who are security conscious, True.com and Honestyfirst.com screen all potential members to ensure they are not married, or criminals. They claim to have prevented many undesirables from slipping through by doing such checks.
Free dating services are popping up more and more these days. They usually make ends meet by showing ads on their sites. So if adverts don't bother you, why not check out one of the free sites, such as PlentyOfFish.com, or Amoureux.com.
Special interest sites bring people together with something in common such as being a single parent, religious beliefs, age, or a certain hobby.
Adult dating is for those who are looking for something short-term and casual, without commitment.
Here are some dos and don'ts
When using dating services, having realistic expectations is important. People often become dissatisfied when they have unrealistic expectations about the people they are going to meet. The result is that women often complain that they are approached by men who they see as losers, while the men complain that they write to women who never reply.
Men should avoid the shotgun approach of cutting and pasting carbon copy letters to dozens of women. You're unlikely to get many replies doing this. Instead, personalize the letter, and only write to those women you are genuinely interested in. Nobody is flattered by a scripted, impersonal letter.
For women, there's nothing wrong with making the first approach. If you are looking for something specific, you should put this into your profile. If you don't get the responses you expect, ask the help of a friend to revise your profile. Try to reply to genuine letters, even if it is just a polite "no thanks". At least the man knows, and is not left waiting in hope.
Do: Have realistic expectations about your potential partner.
Do: Follow the guidelines on the dating websites when meeting someone.
Do: Set up a temporary email account for your registration.
Do: Aim to meet quickly if you like the person.
Do: Read the guidelines on the site to see what is permitted and what is appropriate.
Don't: Post anything too confidential in your profile.
Don't: Give out too much information until you know the person.Labels: beginners, dating profile, dating tips, online dating, sexy dating, singles dating |
| posted by Eileen @ 7:15 PM
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| How to write an online dating profile |
| Thursday |
Make sure you stand out from the crowd!
Take your time
Take your time writing your profile. Make notes about your personality, and jot down your positive attributes, interests, likes, dislikes, before you start to write something out properly.
Choosing a username
Your username is the first thing people see about you, so if you're stuck for choosing a username, think about your interests, where you live or who you are. If you like cycling, try keencyclist. If that's taken then you could add your location, NYCkeencyclist, or maybe keen-cyclist, keencyclist2005, etc.
Photo Personals
Include a recent photo of yourself. Personal ads accompanied by a photo, will attract more than five times the number of replies!
Avoid acronyms and abbreviations
Acronyms and abbreviations are OK in newspaper ads where line space is at a premium. Online, however, you're not restricted. So avoid things like GSOH, SWF, DWM, etc. Why confuse people? If you do have a GSOH (good sense of humour) it would be better to show that in your profile.
Catch line
That all important catch line can be tricky to write. If you are having a problem coming up with a something why not take a clue from music, poetry or literature? A lyric snippet may express just what you want. But do also check out other member's profiles as well, and see what they use for catch lines.
Update Profile Regularly
Keep your profile up to date. Keep changing it a little. Many sites will state when your profile was last updated and allow members to search those by most recently updated. Other members will be more likely to look at your profile.
Check your spelling
Do check spelling before you post your profile! If you see any spelling mistakes on this site you can always email us here!
Avoid negativity
Cannot be said enough! Emphasize the positive things about yourself in your profile.
Be honest
There's little point in writing about the person you'd like to be. Sooner or later, your potential partner will figure out there's something wrong.
Men and Women
For Men: Avoid stating what type of person you want. Instead describe the kind of person you are, and let those reading your profile decide if they're compatible.
For Women: It's ok to state the type of person you want to meet, because there are more men searching for women! Having said that, remember your chances of meeting someone wonderful increase if your criteria are not too restrictive!
For Both: Don't have a list of characteristics that your potential partner must have, rather have a list of those that they should not have. Selection this way round will increase the number of potential partners but without the red flags!Labels: cyber dating, dating profile, online dating, write profile |
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